what is wrong with me?

he tells me im the most important person in his life...he calls me his best friend...he can admit to all the things he loves about me...but he'll never say the words im dying to hear.  is he afraid? or is it that he doesn't love me?  can someone really mean so much without feeling love? 

sunday bbq

spent the day in bed and was able to talk for a bit but I can already feel the darkness seeping in.  his eyes change and then wont even look at me.  I've told him that I can see it happening but i doubt if he believes me.  he needs to get away but I see him struggle within himself.  he needs his friends...the real ones...the ones who can see what his soul needs.

beautiful day

spent the day together...and apart at the same time.  but enjoyed talking seriously and not so seriously with him.  got to sleep in his arms and that was heaven...but once again the phone takes him away and im left sitting alone...

daily grind

GTL kinda day...minus the G of course... ;)   but did have a nice conversation about the gym with my neighbors...wonder if that counts??

he's a hard one to love

I love our chats... and its been a long time.  im glad I was able to set some things straight...and i think he actually heard some of what I had to say.  there were tears...but they were honest and I think they touched his heart.  let's hope...

still following up

sitting in the waiting room, knowing how badly he doesn't want to be there...but then he reaches over and strokes the back of my hand so softly that I wasn't even sure he meant to do it...I look down and he laces his fingers thru mine...I lose myself all over again...tears welling, I thank him for being there with me and he laughs it off like im stupid for thinking he'd rather be anywhere else.  why is he so hard for me to understand?   I love that he's there when I need him...but am I selfish to want him there when I only want him??  my heart and my brain are tired of arguing over him...

done dirty

I have a question...if somebody asks if u have a couple of bucks and u dont have it, but then u go to the atm and pull out a 20 to give to them...should they give u the money they had minus the few bucks they were short or just keep the whole 20 plus what they already had???  im just saying...